Social Anxiety Mailing List June 2013
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Therapy Group Information, Setbacks Are A Sign Of Progress, Questions & Answers with Dr. Richards
The International Group scheduled for July 22nd - August 10th, 2013 is now full.

I would like to give a “proactivity report," as Dr. Richards calls it, about the progress I am making against social anxiety.
I am doing well. I have experienced a lot of fun moments in my life in the past few months. Life is full of these moments every day, we just have to accept them.
I have started to dance again. Now I am a "social dancing" addict. In the past I was a "social anxiety" addict. What a wonderful difference!
Now, I find myself frequently interacting in a calm way in social situations that would have created a lot of anxious thoughts/ feelings in the past.
Then, I say to myself, "Hmmm, something is different here; what is happening to me? Where is the irrational, uncomfortable fear of the past? Is this a SA trick? Is this really happening or am I dreaming?"
I still have some old, automatic, negative thoughts in my mind. But I am really not worried about them. I know that they will continue to get smaller and smaller until they disappear (just as I have already done
with lots of other ANTs).
I am looking for a job. I've already had one job interview and survived. I think I made a good impression with the company because they want me to travel to another office in another country to be interviewed by their team there. I have scheduled the interview for next month.
I have also started studying for my psychology exams that are scheduled for mid-June. This involves a lot of work, but I don't mind. I have already learned to do my best and always be happy with that, no matter
how far I reach or how many exams I pass.
Besides everything else, I make sure to allow some time for myself every day. This "me" time is the time of the day that I enjoy the most so I do not like to miss it.
I’d like to see other proactivity reports on the mailing list.
Emily
I just got done doing a circle of death in a conference room with 14 other people. Whew! It’s still not my favorite activity, but I did fine. I remembered to slow down and believe I sounded confident and relaxed.
We head out for lunch soon... a group of my co-workers and the client, so this gives me an opportunity to practice my slowing down, focusing externally, and "small talk is small talk because it’s small." I know I can handle this.
I thought it was interesting to see how many people were visibly nervous when they had to introduce themselves. There were a lot of red faces. It puts everything into perspective when I see this. Everyone gets nervous and it is OK. It does not have to be viewed as a negative thing to fight against.
You guys know all this, but it just struck me again when I was in the meeting, so I thought I would share it with you.
Megan
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Social Anxiety CBT Groups Around The World
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Being Myself: Self Statements for Social Anxiety
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Thomas A. Richards, Ph.D., Psychologist/Director, SAI
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The Social Anxiety Association
The Social Anxiety Association is a non-profit organization founded in 1997 to meet the growing needs of people with social anxiety. The SAA became inactive for several years due to lack of resources. We are in the process of re-doing our website, listing all active, structured CBT groups for social anxiety, and renewing all our licenses. Major changes will be happening by the end of 2013. We publish new web content -- concerning social anxiety -- almost daily on the site now.
The Social Anxiety Institute is the largest website on the internet about social anxiety disorder (social phobia). Therapy programs have run at the Institute full-time since 1994. Major new help for overcoming social anxiety is under development and will be introduced in 2013.
For treatment: Overcoming social anxiety: Step by Step A structured guide to overcoming social anxiety (a "How to" guide to get over social anxiety).
The Anxiety Network explains and describes five major anxiety disorders.
Guidelines for listing social anxiety groups on this site. We cannot officially endorse groups, so check them out thoroughly. We ask that they be groups that are operating, have a definite leader, and are thoroughly structured. Social anxiety therapy groups are very different than the groups that operate for other mental health conditions.